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Stop feeling tesponsible for everything and everyone. You are not responsible for their insecurites or comfort. 

You gotta stop lowering your temperature for t

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Remember that when they start calling you selfish, full of yourself, or any other thing that they can think of to try to convince you that you need to change ba

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On this journey to confidence, you have to be prepared mentally to challenged. Since you’re newly on this journey, things that people say may still feel as thou

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Remember, the people are going to judge and talk about you anyway. If you keep focusing on their judgment and trying to change it, you’re not growing at all you

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When you are growing, and your glow up is happening, especially from an emotional maturity and growth level you have to turn it up and turn it up high.

When yo

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You are taking on so many responsibilities of other peoples feelings about your boundaries, your growth, journey, and their opinions.

You are not responsible f

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You have got to stop walking around, apologizing for things that are best for you. You should never ever feel guilty about protecting your peace and putting you

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Do not ever allow someone else’s opinion of you make you second-guess yourself. No one is an expert on you and they can only see things from their perspective a

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You are under no obligation to make people comfortable with your or with your boundaries. Most people will not happily respond to your boundaries or your nose a

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People will get salty when you don’t engage in their smearing. The key is to not engage. Grab some popcorn and see what it is if they’re actually talking about 

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You don’t have to meet those expectations of others #expectations 

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You under no obligation to fulfill their expectations or narrative of you that they have in their mind. Do not waste energy or time trying to explain yourself o

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There will be people who are mad that you’re not sad or upset that they’re mad because of your boundaries. This is how you know that you’re on the right path to

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In order to embrace your authenticity and have self-love, you’re gonna have to get rid of some things before you can start adding in all of that love and joy

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